Supporting Someone After a Wildfire: What to Say and Do
Express Care and Empathy
"I’m so sorry for what you’re going through. I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you."
"I’m here for you, and I want to support you however I can."
"Please know you’re not alone in this—I’m thinking of you and your family."
Offer Specific Help
"What do you need most right now? Whether it's meals, supplies, or just someone to talk to, I’m here."
"Can I help you with any errands, calls, or tasks while you focus on rebuilding?"
"I’d love to bring over [food, clothes, or specific items]. Would that be helpful?"
Provide Encouragement
"You’ve been so strong through this, and I believe in your ability to rebuild."
"Take it one step at a time. You don’t have to do everything at once."
"You’re doing an amazing job handling such a difficult situation."
Respect Their Emotions
"It’s okay to feel overwhelmed or upset—it’s a lot to deal with."
"If you need to vent or talk, I’m here to listen without judgment."
"Rebuilding takes time, and there’s no right way to do it. Give yourself grace."
Avoid Minimizing or Overloading Them
Avoid phrases like “At least you’re safe” or “Everything happens for a reason,” which can unintentionally dismiss their pain.
Your presence, understanding, and practical help can make a big difference in their recovery process.
