Listening to understand means being fully present with your partner, setting aside your own thoughts, defenses, and need to respond. Instead of formulating your next argument or counterpoint while they’re speaking, you focus entirely on their words, tone, and emotions.
Read MoreAvoid phrases like “At least you’re safe” or “Everything happens for a reason,” which can unintentionally dismiss their pain. Your presence, understanding, and practical help can make a big difference in their recovery process.
Read MoreThe question, "Is my partner enhancing my life?" isn’t just about today—it’s a question to revisit regularly. Life changes, people grow, and relationships should adapt. If your partner adds value to your life, support them as they do the same. And if the answer is less clear, have an honest conversation with yourself and, if possible, with them.
Read MoreAs moms, we dedicate so much of our lives to our children that when they finally spread their wings and leave the nest, it can feel like a piece of us has gone with them. This transition, though often filled with pride and joy, can also leave us grappling with our sense of self…
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