The question, "Is my partner enhancing my life?" isn’t just about today—it’s a question to revisit regularly. Life changes, people grow, and relationships should adapt. If your partner adds value to your life, support them as they do the same. And if the answer is less clear, have an honest conversation with yourself and, if possible, with them.

Reconnecting: What to Do When You Feel Disconnected from Your Partner ♥️

In the journey of marriage, there are moments when we might find ourselves feeling disconnected from our partner. It's a common experience, but it can be disheartening and even worrying. However, it's important to remember that feeling disconnected doesn't mean the end of love or intimacy…

Finding Solace in Overwhelm: What Moms Can Do When They're at Capacity

Motherhood is a journey filled with boundless love, joy, and fulfillment, but it's also accompanied by its fair share of challenges and moments of being completely overwhelmed. As moms, we often find ourselves juggling numerous responsibilities, from managing households to nurturing relationships and pursuing personal endeavors…

Empowering Relationships: Essential Tools for Establishing Boundaries

Family dynamics can be a beautiful source of love, support, and connection. Yet, navigating these relationships often requires a delicate balance between closeness and maintaining personal boundaries…

Unlocking the Power of Healing: The Benefits of Marriage Therapy

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Relationship Uplift 101

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Misconceptions in Therapy

In my own practice, I see a lot of misconceptions, but especially as they relate to couples’ therapy. Today, I want to dispel a few common misconceptions of couples therapy that I see quite frequently.

What To Say If A Loved One Is Struggling With Their Mental Health

One of the best things you can do to help your loved one is to simply offer up your presence. Lending a non-judgmental ear and being a shoulder to cry can be comforting to someone who may be feeling alone, worried, or depressed. Let that person know you are there for them + available to listen. Show empathy + avoid trying to solve the problem or offering unsolicited advice.